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Abuse Of The Minor

Abuse of the minor

Affects males and females of the society

Throws them off their life courses

Leaves physical scars and emotional scars at a cellular level

Loss of Power and control are a part of what happens

-Some become further victims, acting out and reaping the experiences over and over again. Experiences of victimization become ever present in these outcomes. Some go on to become abusers themselves, seeking to exploit and abuse others around them, specifically those they see as vulnerable or more powerless.

-The same is true in some cases of rape.

Acting out becomes a part of the victimized persons outlook. Acting out is true for both men and women. Some act out by going inside of themselves, but what seems or appears to be prevalent in society is that most act out in extremely sexualized manners.

To understand how to start to fix the problems, one has to understand the physiological aspects as well as the psychological aspects.

Dealing with issues of exploitation

When you are raped, sexually molested, or exploited a variety of things happen. You become off balance, you lose your power and control. You emotionally suffer, but that suffering often shows up externally in acting out behaviours, and is therefore masked and hidden. The individual unknown to them, might also deal with the abuse, by gravitating towards other abusive situations or experiences.

Acting Out

The individual starts to seek out acting out situations, situation that allow them to continue to be in the incorrect situations, and have the incorrect things happen. If left unchecked, or unaware, the individual will continue to see out such situations and conditions. This often results in what society views as self destructive and abusive behaviours. (Eg. Calling the person a slut, whore, etc. If they are acting out. If they turn to drugs to mask issues of loss of power and control, the same thing can happen. It’s even worst when these situations happen to underage, or minor children, because society is not currently set up or geared, to deal with adult like acting out behaviours in underage or minor children.)
The other part of acting out that is hard to understand is that the victim at times might form an intimate bond with the abuser, this is the hardest part to understand, and this in and of itself might be one of the hardest things to understand, until the person is truly free, there might be an unexplainable connection that stays between victim, and abuser.

Once acting out behaviours begin to happen, society might start to view the victimized as the problem, and not really be abel to appreciate or understand, what the victimized person is going through, or experiencing. When a person is abused, sexually molested, raped, etc, we would prefer to not see the individuals in such conditions again, that is why it often does not make sense to society, that a person would go on to see out such conditions, again, and again and again, and we are thus more geared to blame the victim, than to understand them, or what they are experiencing and going through.

The other part of the acting out behaviours that is barely if ever understood is the part where the person then goes on to become an abuser, child molester, or even rapist themselves. This part of acting out is also not understood, and can be very difficult for most people in society to come to terms with. Most times when someone is exploited or abused, we would rather not see them take on the characteristic of their abusers, or rapists, but if left unchecked, that is what can too often happen.

Reclaiming the situation

Once a person becomes aware of what’s happened to them, they need a safe format, a forum where they can discuss what’s happened to them in peace and security. Too often you have been in the incorrect situation for such a long time, it can be hard or difficult to recognize or appreciate when the correct situation happens. Recognizing that you are in fact acting out, that you have lost power & control of your situations is one of the first stages of recovery necessary for the healing process to begin.

This is what then needs to happen, the person needs to be in the correct situation long enough, to feel safe and comfortable for the healing process to begin. Once this is achieved, you can then express or address what’s happened to you. You can delve into your acting out behaviours and start to understand why they came about.

Connecting with the abuse

Connecting with the abuse will happen on a multifaceted level. It will happen, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and even psychologically.
What needs to happen once you make a connection with this awareness, with these situations, or events that have happened in your life is that you then need to say this is what happened to me, this is honestly what was done to me, and this is honestly what I needed to do to survive. I didn’t want this to happen to me, when I was in the situation and this is what was happening to me, this is what I wanted, this is what I needed to happen. An emotional connection should be made with the past, or with the situation that still ongoing. Try to reconnect to the moment where the power and control was lost, and then a reclaiming of the moment or moments can happen or occur.

Acting Out In Safety

The person needs a chance to act out in safety. They need to act out in a non judgmental manner. This can be hard for those around the abused person to understand, especially if the abused is a child. The person needs safe conditions where they can experience their acting behaviours.

The person will first seek out conditions that give them a chance to become the wrong sort of person and do the wrong sort of thing, or conditions that allow them to become the incorrect sort of person, and do the incorrect sort of thing. They actually appear to be hungering for more of the same abusive, or exploitation experience. After a time if the person is able to act out successfully they might eventually seek out correct situations, and the chance to become the correct person, or a chance to become the right person and to the correct thing. What should be acknowledge is that while the person is acting out and allowing themselves to be exploited, they are also in many cases crying out for help, and a desire to be in control again, a desire to find balance. To be released from the captivity from whence they are being help.
Once a person is able to act out in the correct way, they might be abel to learn to take back the control, power, and balance that was lost. Recovery might actually be abel to happen. The hunger for being exploited, the pain can then be reincorporated back into the person. The pain and suffering is actualized, and the experience of what happened during the rape, sexual molestation, is understood.

Power and Control

Power and control can then be regained because the person is back in control of the situation or experience that eventually removed them from their outcomes, that made them lose power, control, and balance in the first place.

Recovery

After this stage, if power and control can come back into the persons life, then a form of recovery happens. A regaining of person and self. The person comes back into their being, and they are abel to recover. The hurt, pain, and suffering is reintegrated back into the soul. Crying of the soul can be heard at this stage as well.

Healing

Healing also happens at this stage and then the person is released from the captivity from whence they are being held. They are then truly free at this stage, and then finally further healing can finally happen.

Balance

The balance that was lost as you though that the world was a safe place, a fair place, or that someone would be trying to come and help you can then be restored. Often times our balance is lost, because we think that the world is a safe place, a fair place and if we were going to be raped, molested, exploited, or abused, someone would come to our aid, to our rescue, when this does not happen your balance is lost, in some cases, for others it’s a type or form of dying that happens, and for some it is never recovered. Once the balance is restored the person can then try to take back control of their lives, that’s part of the healing that can happen.

Part of the recovery might also include removal of some or all of the abusers from the persons life. The person is also less likely to be acting out of control, and is less likely to become an abuser, or intimate or initiate future situations of abuse.

~GmB Bailey
Social/Psychology
Researcher

August 17, 2013 - Posted by | Abuse, Gang Stalking | , , , ,

7 Comments »

  1. Abuse of the minor part 2. What if the hurt is yours, what if you cause the hurt, that is what part 2 covers, when it’s yours.

    Abuse of the minor part 2. What if the hurt is yours, what if you cause the hurt, that is what part 2 covers, when it’s yours.

    Video. J. Holiday. When it’s yours.

    Comment by gangstalking | August 17, 2013 | Reply

  2. Comment by gangstalking | August 17, 2013 | Reply

  3. Excellent post. Let’s me know that what happened throughout my life is simply not my fault.

    Thank you!

    Comment by musicis2words | August 17, 2013 | Reply

    • Thanks, but I hope the post does not remove, personal self responsibility when and if it’s warented, it just shows, the burdens do not have to be there forever.

      Comment by gangstalking | August 18, 2013 | Reply

      • I guess what I am referring to is the prevalence of the “blame the victim” mentality. This is what gang stalkers often do to make the victim feel like he or she deserves what is happening to them, when in many cases, the victim is living proof of things like MK Ultra or Project Monarch (which is why they are being targeted).

        When one begins to realize the fact that mind control is ubiquitous in society, it becomes difficult to see exactly how much freewill exists. I know that people with brain implants, ala Dr. Jose Delgado, are sorely lacking in the freewill department.

        The heavy use of Neurolinguistic Programming in movies, music, tv, & even among people who are in the so-called “truth movement”, has a strong impact on mood & behavior. The use of subliminals in movies & television (why do you think they call it “programming”?) is another thing that affects mood & behavior. Many people like to fall asleep with the TV on. Makes ya wonder what is going into the subconscious mind. If a person also has brain implants, then how can the puppet be blamed for what the puppet master does?

        I’m willing bet that, if there wasn’t so much subversive mind control going on, there would be less depression, other mental disorders, & probably less drug addiction in our world. Rather than address the cause of such things, the system prefers to sell their solutions to the symptoms, because it makes them more money. They don’t really care about who gets hurt (or killed in some cases) in the process. It’s all about profit for them.

        Comment by musicis2words | August 19, 2013

      • I totally love your post, your comments, it so makes sense, permission to repost it in advance, if it’s ever suitable, or eligible. You made some good points, so many good points.

        Comment by gangstalking | August 21, 2013

      • Hey… thanx for the support. It is appreciated more than you know. What do you mean by “permission to repost”?
        One thing I should’ve mentioned in my last comment where I said, “Rather than address the cause…”
        I want to insert something: “the system prefers to sell their solutions to the symptoms THEY CAUSE because it makes them more money”.

        Comment by musicis2words | August 22, 2013


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